The truth is, your reasons are not important - if you aren't interested, you aren't interested. Sometimes that's just the way it goes. Make it private, but choose a neutral location. Allow her the ability to express her feelings rather than just cutting her off straight away. And lots of people ghost merely because they feel awkward talking to the person; it's especially tempting to ghost when you've met the person off of a dating app since the virtual beginnings make it seem like less of a big deal.
Make it private, but choose a neutral location.
How to Tell a Girl You’re Not Interested in Her like a Gentleman
Just give them a straight reason. I am cynical about dating and relationships now in a way I never was and I believe that the internet has a lot to answer for in regards to manners and behaviour in dating these days. My feeling is if two adults like each other, you are honest from the get go, then you get on with it and see how things progress especially when middle aged. They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? Will he try to get in contact with me?