Latest posts by Susan Storm see all. They want a partner who is open for adventure, who can keep up with their vigorous brainstorming, and who will be enthusiastic about their ambitions and dreams. They will feel flustered and irritated if they are constantly pressured to make decisions or nail down commitments. Trust and reliability are equally embraced with this couple. Mutual commitment, humor, being listened to, and intellectual stimulation are highly valued by INTPs in relationships. They are usually confident, ambitious, determined, and decisive. Overall, they are wanting trust, shared values, commitment, and good listening skills in a relationship.
As Intuitive types, all NPs gravitate toward more abstract varieties of communication.
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Follow Us. Dinner and a movie, fixing a meal together, or meeting at a coffee shop for a quiet drink are all great first date ideas. They put more weight on their own personal experience and facts rather than intentions. What each personality type looks for in a date and what instantly turns them off is very different. Want a comprehensive guide to the INFJ personality type? They love a good intellectual discussion and they love brainstorming and theorizing about what the future could hold.